On Failing and Dreaming…
I’ve spent the day sitting on the couch watching the snow fall in endless drifts, working on my computer, and thinking about what the past year has brought and what I want for my future.
This year has been one of incredible growth for my little textile shop – we’ve smashed milestone after milestone, and I have had so many challenges and opportunities both personal and professional. I would love for my shop to growth to be linear (well, at least for a little bit), and to fling myself with abandon into the many new things that await me, but I find myself mentally hesitating and sometimes even sabotaging myself by being unfocused and not actually taking the steps needed to pursue my dreams. In trying to figure this out, I keep coming back to one of Amazon’s mantras – Think Big. This is a specific trait they look for in candidates – the ability to think way beyond the current reality and imagine a much bigger, better, reality. My husband, who helped interview candidates during his tenure there, said that was the single trait that most sunk otherwise-promising candidates. I, too, am struggling to Think Big. My personal and professional dreams are accessible, all I have to do is reach out and grab them. But apparently I’m afraid to. And what really kills me about this is that THERE IS NO CONSEQUENCE! If I try and fail I will be in literally the exact same position I am now – which is pretty damn good, honestly! If I try and succeed, then that would be AH-MAZING. Really, there is no possible way to screw this up, and yet, I’m refusing to jump.
Do secret fears of being unworthy hold me back? Am I afraid that if I try and fail than I will consider myself an utter failure so am trying to protect my self-image? I don’t have answers, but I’m going to try to get an early start on my New Year’s resolution: JUMP, DAMMIT!
I’d love to hear from you: What’s holding you back? What dreams are you still reaching for? What is your resolution? And especially, what are you going to do to actualize it?